Enjoy life Slowly!

I have come to know that when it comes to things we enjoy that we should take our time enoying it. So that it can last as long as possible.
You can compare it to your favorite food. You've just finished your plate and it was absolutely delicious. And because you still have a little room you'll have another plate full. Though to your suprise you don't enjoy it as much.
It would have been more ideal to wait till the next time you eat it again so you can look forward to enoying it again.

This doesn't nessessary have to do with just food but life in general. Relationships, experiences, memories and so much more.

Like heck why life through life as fast as you can? When you can take your time and enjoy your next walk in the park and actually notice the beautiful senery around you and feel the wind breeze past your face.

Why in a relationship take things to the next step too quick? Enjoy the time you have to together and get to know eachother even more along that way.

I've been thinking alot lately just how easy it is to forget about these things. That's why I'm so scared to loose things so quick because it feels like I've had it all. But really I should just go down a pace and enjoy.

New dress and a new experience!

I'm sorry for not posting lately, but I've been very busy redecorating my bedroom (lolita style^^). Been to Ikea and bought a load of new stuff.
A new closet, and bedside tables, a desk, shelves, a rubbish bin and some more things. Later on this year I will be painting and wallpapering my room too, but I've not yet decided on the colour.^^
More to come on that!

I can finally conclude that I have received my first lolita dress and I was supper happy about it!^^
It's a light pink and white pokka dotted JSK. Full of frills and ribbons and heartshaped pockets!
It's too cute! I don't have any good pictures yet, but hope to have them soon!;-)

It was my sister's birthday yesterday and we went to eat out and thought it to be a right occasion to wear my lovely dress.
I can tell you I was attention point Number 1!
As soon as I came in, lots of people stared at me. Many of which even took pictures and spoke amongst themselves.
According to my boyfriend, the girls, on the tabel behind us, loved my dress and thought it was very cute!

Well mission ocomplished the I guess^^

Toodlesxx

Paid a visit!

It was a great day after all. And YES I did see the lolita shop MFashion! You can't imagine how excited I was to go there. My whole journey there was a big nervous adventure. I had no idea what to expect. For all the lolita clothes I have ever seen where on the internet. So it was such an auwsome experience to actually hold these cute dresses in my hands.
When I saw the shop from a distance already I started to feel the butterflies banging against throat. I felt like shouting and cheering at the sight of it. In the window was a beautiful pink dress with bows, and a creme coloured coat with heart shaped pockets and a stoler attached.
When I finally ventured inside I beheld a tiny shop. I had not expected it to be so small. But that didn't mean that it was empty. No it was full, literally stuffed with pretty pink things. I made sure to look at least at every section of the shop. If I had money comming out of my ears I would have bought something, but sadly it was very expensive. They even had the original Japanese price tags on the items:P
I took two flyers with me from the shop that the lady, working there, handed me and left. And of course made a memorial picture that I can show here in my blog:)

I've written eveything down that I will be ordering online and I'm very excited to have them in my own hands.

Toodles for now ^^

Lolita Shop!

I am so excited right now!
Today I will be visiting a lolita fashion shop:)
I've never seen these cute dresses in real life before, and to have them at hands reach would just be too amazing!
As far as I know there is only one of these kind of shops in the Netherlands. Except the shop from my mum which will be selling them too shortly:P ( due to my helping hand:P).

I just can't wait:) It's in Utrecht which is about an hour from where I life, so first some train traveling together with my bf.

For more info please check the link to the shop's website below:

http://www.mfashion.eu/

Toodles xx^^

Mood: Excited I can't sleep anymore:)
Place: My room quater to ten in the morning.

Today I had a good day!

I have to admit after getting out of bed on the wrong foot, this morning, my day was very much satisfying.
I didn't really want to go to work this morning, and did end up going knowing it was the right thing to do.
I travel by train every morning, which I dislike at times, due to it being overally busy. I can't stand the people standing so close to me. Plus they make sure to pusha nd run into the overaly crowded train trying to have s seat, when they actually already know they won't be able to purchase.
Well this morning I was too busy to even notice this, because I was so busy reading my book "Brisinger" from the Eragon series. Sadly I've finished reading it today :'( They're such auwsome books, by the way! I really do recommend. See attched for some more pics^^.

Try as I might this whole lolita thing was racing through my head. I want to know everything I can about this new found culture so that I can adapt it to my own life.
But I got to admit this is going to be a toughy. It's quite hard to work into everyday working life and at home I don't really have much of a day over. Well hopefully with the job ending soon, I will.
I've found such great websites, that I will be ordering such cute clothing and accessories from and I can't wait! It makes me all excited. I love being a girl, it just has so many advantages.

I'm following a really cool girl's blog on lolita and I have to say I'm pleased to have found her, she's so inspiring.
See link below for more info^^:

http://makelovely.wordpress.com/

Toodles^^
Mcduff

Lolita is the word!

So I've finally decided on one thing and to try to keep it. I have to admit I've got a good feeling about this. Which is a different feeling than I usualy have about these kind of things. It's going to be lolita from now on. I'll be keeping track of my lolita ettiquette here as well as noting down my progress and ventures in this new world full of frills, and sweet pink things. I woke up quite happy today so thats already a great start!:) Music:Nana -Lucy Mood:Happy and hungry Place:My room

Cloud of mist

What can I say..? It all just feels so different now, I'm frightened, well at least now not as much as before.
But it feels so empty, this empty space beside me.
Or more a big gap that has caved in between the two of us.
I feel so lost and my head is in a cloud of mist.
My heart aches, though now it's more numb than before,
I feel so helpless, useless in some way.
I just want to hold you and look after you in my arms,
making sure your safe makes, me, feel safe.
I wonder every day which step to take next not wanting to dwell off of this path,
I worried to make a wrong step, away from all this,
I know we're meant to be, maybe not just yet, but we will be..!